.But what Astrid doesn't understand but is a fact that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has two children-- can easily verify: The reality that your partnership along with your moms and dads improvements and also evolves as you both grow older, and also ideally right. "Your world facilities around [your little ones] when they're infants [and also] it's so much job yet beautiful," O'Hara states. "Eventually, you definitely miss that, considering that at that point you can't get all of them to carry out anything you wish all of them to carry out, given that they start creating their very own thoughts, their own viewpoints." And also at some point, you find yourself in the location O'Hara, whose children are in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself today, able to pick up from her children. "They're just such amazing younger people," she states. "I am actually not their friend, however I like possessing talks along with them and learning more about exactly how they consider lifestyle.".