.An adult along with a chaotic accessory type, in some cases pertained to as anxious-avoidant attachment type, strains to rely on people. Frequently in partnerships, their behavior is actually inconsistent as well as chaotic. Typically, this add-on type develops when one's major caretaker is both a source of love as well as anxiety throughout their youth. In maturity, Viviana located herself emulating her mommy's hot-and-cold behavior in her personal intimate connections. "I'll be truly in to a person as well as when they're truly into me, I'm like, 'Okay, you need to have to leave, satisfy,'" she mentions. "The second they disappear, I'm like, 'Wait, please returned. Affection me.' And then I'll do anything to keep their focus. I see it with my mama, also. I wanted to be close to her. Yet when I got near her, that is actually when the belt will emerge.".